Wife doesn’t tell her cheating husband’s side chick about his HIV-POSITIVE status, but she is afraid he might have to g jail, she wrote…
I am a 38 year-old loyal, straight and married woman. My husband and I have two children. I have been with my husband for 12 years, married for six.
3 years after marriage, we found out that he was HIV positive. Both of us were negative then, but only I am now. He got infected as a result of him cheating without protection. I love him, so we worked through that and remained married.
Recently I saw a message from a woman saying, “Call me or I am calling your wife.” I believe she is my husband’s side chick. When I asked her how long they were having a relationship, and she told me since January. I did not mention my husband’s HIV status.
I confronted my husband, and he claims she is a crazy stalker. He says there was a brief flirtation but then she became clingy and “crazy,” and he did not know how to tell me without compromising our relationship.
If positive person who does not inform a person of their status before having getting in bed faces up to five years in prison. But he claims he did not cheat on me or have any physical relation with that chick, or any other. I don’t believe him. I don’t think we can work through our problems without honesty.
I want him to come clean and admit to me and our therapist that he had been cheating on me with this chick without protection. If he does, I believe the therapist will be legally obligated to report his behavior to the police. I am preparing myself for divorce, something he doesn’t know.
AIDS activist and member of the American Foundation for AIDS Research, Peter Staley said: “I’ll leave the relationship issues to you. But seeing as your husband cheated, STATUS, and not for the first time, your distrust is understandable. What I don’t understand is your desire to see your husband sent to prison. You don’t want to “work through your problems”, you just want your soon-to-be ex-husband to rot in jail.”